POV: You Get Told You’re Too Loud — How to Respond Calmly

Some people would rather disappear than apologize 💔 | apologize

We’re taught that fixing a fight means apologizing. Say sorry, hug it out, move on. But the most important part of repair happens long before anyone gets anywhere near an apology. Think about the state you’re in right after an argument. Your heart is racing. Your thoughts are looping. You’re rehearsing your side, certain you were right, desperate to be understood. In that moment, your body is still in protection mode, and no one can genuinely repair from there. You can force the words “I’m sorry

What's one thing people often get wrong when apologizing? 💭 A thoughtful apology acknowledges the hurt caused, takes responsibility, and focuses on making amends rather than explaining intent. Here is the 4 part apology formula 👆that I think is important to follow to genuinely say “I’m sorry”. Grace and accountability often go hand in hand! I’m curious how you see it, drop your thoughts below 👇✨